Tuesday, March 3, 2009

About Us … Part 2

We enjoyed each other, too. We were best friends, confidants, crazy in love with each other and more compatible sexually than I think either one of us ever imagined. In short, the sex was fantastic … she loved it, I loved it and the truth is neither of us could get enough of each other. Perhaps not especially unusual for a young married couple but there were never any questions about it … or about us … neither of us had any attraction to other people, no interest in broadening our horizons or exploring anything that involved more than the two of us. Again, not particularly unusual but the significance of this mindset would play an important part in our lives during the years to come.

Thursday, February 26, 2009

About Us … Part 1

With the exception of having spent 11 years in the internet porn business, 14 years in a semi-open marriage and socializing primarily with people society commonly refers to as ‘swingers’, we’re pretty much an ordinary couple. We’ve been married for 35 years and together for over 40. We met when we were 12 years old when I saw my future wife pushing her nephew in a stroller and promptly hopped off of my bicycle’s banana seat and threw a rock at her. Fortunately, I missed but I did get her attention. She later told me that she went home and told her mother that she’d just met the boy she was going to marry. Fast forward a couple of years … we dated through high school and college, got married at 22 and 21 respectively and settled into a truly happy all American lifestyle; me with a great career, her a stay at home mom, two great kids, a beautiful home in the suburbs, a wide circle of friends and plenty of disposable income. Frankly, we were the quintessential American family … family vacations every summer, dinner at 6:00 every night … I coached baseball … she was a girl scout leader … and totally involved in our kids’ lives. Pretty much, we did exactly what we were supposed to do … and thoroughly enjoyed every minute of it.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

The Background

So, after almost 11 years, a lot of fun, even more drama and more than our share of consternation and heartache, we've finally decided to tell our story. Whether anyone will be interested or not or even take the time to read it doesn't seem as relevant as our simply getting it down, as accurately as possible, on paper or since we are in the 21st century, on the screen. Our thumbnail bio on the left recaps it pretty well ... over the last 11 years, we've somehow managed to build one of the most successful amateur porn enterprises on the internet. What started out as a single website has grown to a network of over 50 sites with thousands of visitors everyday and that generates considerable income for ourselves and our partners. While we're clearly not the only people who have done this, we are perhaps the most unlikely ones and what makes our story interesting is not so much what we do but where we come from, how we arrived here and the impact that this life choice has had on every aspect of our life.